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Existential Therapy
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Reconnect with a sense of purpose when life feels aimless or uncertain
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Explore your values and make choices that feel more aligned and authentic
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Develop greater emotional depth and resilience in the face of change, grief, or transition
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Understand yourself more fully—beyond roles, expectations, or past stories
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Strengthen your ability to navigate uncertainty with clarity and self-trust
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Find meaning in painful experiences rather than feeling defined by them
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Cultivate a more honest, compassionate relationship with yourself
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Move beyond “coping” into conscious, intentional living
Existential therapy doesn’t give you all the answers—it helps you live more fully inside the questions.
Existential Therapy in New York
Guidance Through the Big Questions of Life
Are You Asking Yourself, “What’s the Point?”
Maybe you’ve achieved what others call success—but still feel empty. Maybe you’re in a relationship, or not, but loneliness persists. Or maybe you’re in a moment of transition—grief, identity loss, career change—and the ground beneath you feels unstable.
These aren’t “mental health problems.” These are existential concerns. And they’re incredibly human.
At Authentically Living, we offer existential therapy in New York for individuals who are ready to confront these deeper questions, move through emotional pain, and reconnect with meaning, purpose, and self-trust.

More Than Just Therapy — A Philosophical Partnership
Existential therapy is a dialogue between therapist and client, not as expert and patient, but as two human beings facing the rawness of life together.
We won’t rush your insights. We won’t bypass your pain. We’ll sit with you in the unknown, help you reframe suffering as part of being fully alive, and walk with you as you shape a life that feels more authentic, courageous, and self-led.
What Is Existential Therapy?
Existential therapy is a powerful approach rooted in philosophy and psychology. Rather than focusing solely on symptoms, it helps you examine the core of your human experience:
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Who am I beyond what I do or produce?
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What do I truly value?
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How do I make peace with uncertainty, freedom, and loss?
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What does it mean to live an authentic life?
This therapy invites you to explore your truth courageously, without needing to “fix” or avoid it. It’s especially effective for those who feel:
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Lost, stuck, or detached from their values
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Overwhelmed by life’s uncertainty
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Paralyzed by choice or directionlessness
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Haunted by existential anxiety or spiritual emptiness
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Tired of surface-level coping strategies that don’t last

Hers is a voice of healing, transcendence and elegance, humility and loving-kindness.

I felt heard and understood, and words can never describe how eternally grateful I am...

Not sure how to describe it, but I finally learned who I am.


Why Existential Therapy Matters—Especially in New York
New York is a city of ambition, diversity, and intensity. It’s a place where people push themselves to grow, achieve, and adapt. But beneath the drive, many quietly wrestle with profound questions: Am I living the life I want? Am I connected—to others, to purpose, to myself?
Existential therapy creates space for these questions—not as problems, but as gateways to freedom.
If you're looking for therapy that doesn't reduce you to a diagnosis, that honors the full weight of your experience and complexity, existential therapy with our team in New York may be what you’ve been missing.
Why Choose Authentically Living?
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Deeply trained, licensed clinicians in existential, trauma-informed, and humanistic therapies
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Emotionally nuanced care for complexity, depth, and inner conflict
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LGBTQIA+ affirming, identity-conscious, and culturally responsive practice
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Personalized, flexible, and non-pathologizing therapeutic approach
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A space where you can be messy, searching, and fully human
🔗 Schedule a free consultation with Cynthia Shaw or Sapira Cahana
📍 Serving all of New York – NYC, Brooklyn, Upstate, Long Island, and beyond
📞 Prefer to talk first? Call us directly at 312.600.3775🌿
"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering." – Viktor Frankl
FAQs about existential therapy
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What type of counseling is best for grief?There are many different types of counseling practices for addressing grief. The choice of modality is specific to the provider, as well as the assessment of client needs, preferences, and the nature of grief. Below are common counseling services typically provided for grief: Existential & Humanistic Therapy: Existential and humanistic therapy are interconnected therapies that focus on self-understanding while confronting limitations to being human, such as death, illness, and demise, responsibilities and freedom to make choices, and what it means to be authentic. The therapies highlight the integration of exploring meaning, purpose, and personal fulfillment while recognizing and challenging the irony of pointlessness and the inevitability of loss. Positive Psychology: Positive psychology has similarities to existential and humanistic therapy, as it focuses on promoting wellness and self-growth despite loss. Positive psychology is more strength-based and relies on personal resiliency, meaningful goals, and gratitude to navigate grief. Art & Expressive Therapy: Expressive therapies include the use of creative art interventions such as drawing, writing, painting, singing, dancing, and acting to process grief and loss. The use of mainstream talk therapy can sometimes be challenging for those who are grieving, and thus resorting to nonverbal forms of expression can be cathartic and supportive. Narrative Therapy: Similar to Expressive therapies and Positive Psychology, Narrative therapy focuses on allowing a person to story and describe their experience of loss. Identifying personal resiliency and noted strengths, narrative therapy further focuses on the re-narrating or re-storying of the loss; It provides an opportunity to notice new perspectives as we move through loss. Mindfulness-Based Therapy: Helpful as an additive to all modalities, especially for those grieving, Mindfulness-Based Therapy focuses on incorporating stress reduction tools, meditation practices, and mindfulness exercises to aid in down-regulating one's heightened nervous system, self-soothe, and ground an individual. Logotherapy: A branch of Existential therapy, Logotherapy is also an additive therapy that focuses specifically on creating meaning. Even in the face of suffering, Logotherapy highlight how we can still choose to create meaning. For unchanging situations, such as after loss, incorporating attitudinal shifts is a primary focus of logotherapy. Transpersonal Psychology & Grief Therapy: Known as a spiritual and holistic form of therapy, Transpersonal psychology focuses on experiences of interconnectedness such as during states of flow, sereneness, and meditation, and while using certain therapeutic substances, such as psychedelics. In the context of grief, this modality can help a person striving for connection with nature, and greater self alignment, and those interested in exploring their spiritual and religious beliefs and connections. Group & Family Therapy: As highlighted above, Group and Family therapy are effective modalities for those looking for greater communal support, collective processing, and learning how to better communicate and connect. Our practice offers a variety of the modalities presented above. If you have questions about a modality that you do not see listed, please contact us and a member of our staff will return your inquiry in 24-48 hours.
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Is group therapy good for grief?Group therapy is a supportive modality for addressing grief, as it provides a space for peer support, communal validation, decreased isolation and loneliness, normalization of certain experiences, and an opportunity to share without fear of judgment. Group therapy encourages the expression of difficult emotions that may be more challenging to have with friends and colleagues, and is a platform for practicing how to advocate for your needs. Our grief therapy group offers a unique opportunity to utilize creative practices to express and address grief, that doesn't solely rely on the use of verbal processing. We have found that grief is often difficult to talk about and that words do not always express our experiences justly. In addition to creative interventions, such as writing, drawing, and painting, our incorporation of mindfulness exercises aids in down-regulating your nervous system at the end of group, and are additional tools for you to practice at your leisure when overwhelmed with the distress of grief. If you are interested in learning more about our grief group and whether this might be a good fit for you, reach out by clicking here. A member of our staff will return your inquiry in 24-48 hours.
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How soon should you have bereavement counseling?The timing for starting bereavement therapy is different from person to person. Taking into account the nature of a loss, a person's readiness and interest in therapy, availability of supportive factors and coping skills, and cultural factors can influence when and if a person will seek bereavement counseling. It's important to remember that the healing process is unique for everyone and so there is no right or wrong time to seek therapy and that regardless of when your loss occurred, it is never too late to start grief therapy.
Begin Your Existential Journey Today
Maybe you’ve tried strategies—meditation, journaling, podcasts, even other therapies. They may have helped temporarily, but something still feels... unresolved.
You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re human.
What you may be experiencing is not a crisis of productivity—it’s a crisis of meaning. Existential therapy doesn’t offer easy solutions or quick fixes. What it offers is the rarest kind of space: one where your pain, your questions, and your complexity are not just tolerated—they're welcomed.
Here, you're not asked to quiet your inner voice. You're invited to listen to it more deeply.
You don’t need to have the answers. You just need a space where asking the questions is safe, sacred, and supported.If you’re seeking a New York existential therapist who will meet you at the level of your humanity, we invite you to work with
Cynthia Shaw or Sapira Cahana at Authentically Living.