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Internal Family Systems (IFS)
During your IFS therapy sessions at Authentically Living, you’ll:
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Learn how to recognize your different inner parts and their roles
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Develop compassion for your protective patterns
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Heal younger, wounded parts that carry burdens from the past
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Strengthen your Self-leadership so you can make empowered, authentic choices
IFS is a gentle yet powerful approach. It’s not about “fixing” you—it’s about helping you reconnect to who you truly are.
Heal From Within: Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy in New Jersey with Jaclyn Paradise
Are you struggling with parts of yourself that seem to be in constant conflict? Do you feel stuck, anxious, or overwhelmed—and wonder why it’s so hard to “just move on”? At Authentically Living, we offer Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy in New Jersey to help you reconnect with your core Self and find healing from the inside out. Led by IFS-informed therapist Jaclyn Paradise, this transformative approach can unlock powerful, lasting change.
Long-lasting responses to trauma result not simply from the experience of fear and helplessness but from how our bodies interpret those experiences. Rachel Yehuda

What Is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a groundbreaking, evidence-based holistic therapy model developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz. IFS is based on the idea that the mind is made up of parts—different subpersonalities that hold unique feelings, beliefs, and roles within us. Some parts might try to protect you from pain, while others carry trauma, shame, or fear.
IFS helps you:
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Identify and understand your inner parts (like the Inner Critic, the Perfectionist, or the Wounded Child)
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Heal emotional wounds carried by exiled parts
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Reduce internal conflict and self-sabotage
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Access your core Self, the calm, compassionate inner leader that can bring balance to your internal system
IFS doesn’t pathologize your thoughts or behaviors. Instead, it sees all your parts as trying to help in their own way—healing begins when we learn to listen to them with curiosity, not judgment.
What are Parts?
Your parts may include:
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A perfectionist part that pushes you
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An anxious part that feels overwhelmed
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A wounded inner child who still holds pain
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A protective part that shuts down emotionally
Instead of trying to “fix” or silence these parts, IFS helps you build a relationship with them — allowing you to access your true Self: calm, compassionate, confident, and clear.
Step 1: Reach out
Start by filling out our simple contact form. We'll reach back within 24 hours to set up your free phone consultation.
Step 2: Free consultation
We'll chat about what's bringing you to therapy and answer any questions you might have so you can get a sense of whether we're a good fit.
Step 3: Intake session
In this initial meeting, we'll dive deeper into your background and start discussing your goals for our work together.
Step 4: Regular sessions
Through our ongoing work, you'll receive personalized care with evidence-based techniques and mind-body practices to support your well-being.

Why Choose IFS Therapy?
IFS is especially effective for individuals struggling with:
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Anxiety and depression
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Trauma and PTSD/CPTSD
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Relationship issues
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Low self-worth or self-criticism
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Burnout and chronic stress
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Emotional reactivity or shutdowns
This model fosters deep emotional healing by guiding you to lead your life from your Self—a place of clarity, courage, and compassion. Many clients describe IFS as life-changing because it helps them feel more whole, empowered, and grounded.
Meet Jaclyn Paradise, IFS Therapist in New Jersey
At Authentically Living, we are proud to offer IFS therapy with Jaclyn Paradise, a deeply compassionate and skilled therapist certified as a trauma specialist and mindfulness-based clinician, and highly informed in Internal Family Systems model. Jaclyn brings years of experience working with individuals who feel fragmented, stuck in patterns, or disconnected from their inner strength.
Jaclyn has a gift for helping clients safely explore their internal world, heal inner wounds, and build a trusting relationship with their parts. She offers IFS therapy online across New Jersey, creating a flexible, supportive environment for your healing.
Whether you’ve tried other therapies without lasting results or are brand new to inner work, Jaclyn meets you where you are—with warmth, presence, and the expertise to guide you toward lasting transformation.
"You’re part of the reason as to why I now know and why my house burnt down. You have helped support and supplied me with the tools to rebuild it correctly as well as the up keep of it. My walls are strong but most importantly is the foundation is solid. Thank you for your help and your drive, passion, ambition are very inspiring!"
-Past Client

FAQs about IFS
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What type of counseling is best for grief?There are many different types of counseling practices for addressing grief. The choice of modality is specific to the provider, as well as the assessment of client needs, preferences, and the nature of grief. Below are common counseling services typically provided for grief: Existential & Humanistic Therapy: Existential and humanistic therapy are interconnected therapies that focus on self-understanding while confronting limitations to being human, such as death, illness, and demise, responsibilities and freedom to make choices, and what it means to be authentic. The therapies highlight the integration of exploring meaning, purpose, and personal fulfillment while recognizing and challenging the irony of pointlessness and the inevitability of loss. Positive Psychology: Positive psychology has similarities to existential and humanistic therapy, as it focuses on promoting wellness and self-growth despite loss. Positive psychology is more strength-based and relies on personal resiliency, meaningful goals, and gratitude to navigate grief. Art & Expressive Therapy: Expressive therapies include the use of creative art interventions such as drawing, writing, painting, singing, dancing, and acting to process grief and loss. The use of mainstream talk therapy can sometimes be challenging for those who are grieving, and thus resorting to nonverbal forms of expression can be cathartic and supportive. Narrative Therapy: Similar to Expressive therapies and Positive Psychology, Narrative therapy focuses on allowing a person to story and describe their experience of loss. Identifying personal resiliency and noted strengths, narrative therapy further focuses on the re-narrating or re-storying of the loss; It provides an opportunity to notice new perspectives as we move through loss. Mindfulness-Based Therapy: Helpful as an additive to all modalities, especially for those grieving, Mindfulness-Based Therapy focuses on incorporating stress reduction tools, meditation practices, and mindfulness exercises to aid in down-regulating one's heightened nervous system, self-soothe, and ground an individual. Logotherapy: A branch of Existential therapy, Logotherapy is also an additive therapy that focuses specifically on creating meaning. Even in the face of suffering, Logotherapy highlight how we can still choose to create meaning. For unchanging situations, such as after loss, incorporating attitudinal shifts is a primary focus of logotherapy. Transpersonal Psychology & Grief Therapy: Known as a spiritual and holistic form of therapy, Transpersonal psychology focuses on experiences of interconnectedness such as during states of flow, sereneness, and meditation, and while using certain therapeutic substances, such as psychedelics. In the context of grief, this modality can help a person striving for connection with nature, and greater self alignment, and those interested in exploring their spiritual and religious beliefs and connections. Group & Family Therapy: As highlighted above, Group and Family therapy are effective modalities for those looking for greater communal support, collective processing, and learning how to better communicate and connect. Our practice offers a variety of the modalities presented above. If you have questions about a modality that you do not see listed, please contact us and a member of our staff will return your inquiry in 24-48 hours.
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Is group therapy good for grief?Group therapy is a supportive modality for addressing grief, as it provides a space for peer support, communal validation, decreased isolation and loneliness, normalization of certain experiences, and an opportunity to share without fear of judgment. Group therapy encourages the expression of difficult emotions that may be more challenging to have with friends and colleagues, and is a platform for practicing how to advocate for your needs. Our grief therapy group offers a unique opportunity to utilize creative practices to express and address grief, that doesn't solely rely on the use of verbal processing. We have found that grief is often difficult to talk about and that words do not always express our experiences justly. In addition to creative interventions, such as writing, drawing, and painting, our incorporation of mindfulness exercises aids in down-regulating your nervous system at the end of group, and are additional tools for you to practice at your leisure when overwhelmed with the distress of grief. If you are interested in learning more about our grief group and whether this might be a good fit for you, reach out by clicking here. A member of our staff will return your inquiry in 24-48 hours.
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How soon should you have bereavement counseling?The timing for starting bereavement therapy is different from person to person. Taking into account the nature of a loss, a person's readiness and interest in therapy, availability of supportive factors and coping skills, and cultural factors can influence when and if a person will seek bereavement counseling. It's important to remember that the healing process is unique for everyone and so there is no right or wrong time to seek therapy and that regardless of when your loss occurred, it is never too late to start grief therapy.
Begin IFS Therapy Today
Maybe you’ve already tried to heal — through mindfulness apps, self-help books, long talks with friends, or even other types of therapy. Maybe parts of you felt relief... but something deeper still aches.
You’re not failing at healing. You’re not too much. And you’re definitely not broken.
What you may be feeling is the weight of unacknowledged inner parts — protective, wounded, or forgotten aspects of yourself that are still holding onto past pain. IFS (Internal Family Systems) therapy doesn’t try to silence these parts. It invites them into the light with compassion and curiosity.
With Jaclyn Paradise, you’ll find more than coping tools — you’ll find a path inward. A space where your inner child is finally listened to. Where you’re supported in unburdening what was never yours to carry.
This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about reconnecting with who you’ve always been.
If you’re seeking an IFS informed therapist in New Jersey who will meet you with warmth, presence, and deep respect for your inner world, we invite you to work with Jaclyn Paradise at Authentically Living Psych.